Skill set

I am passionate about coaching. And it is always amazing the answers and solutions the clients come up with for themselves.

It is a process. A process where each client with their different cultures, different backgrounds, etc, all play a role. And there is not one coaching fits all as all clients are different and every client  requires a different approach, a different technique, a different skill as a coach.

In coaching I see many women not allowing  themselves to go after what they want because they do not have the full skill set required for a certain job.

There was a video  on CNN and BBC a few weeks ago which truly impressed me: an 11 year old girl was attacked by a man with a knife who tried to abduct her. She did not have self-defence classes and was not a master in Karate. This lack of skills did not prevent her to defend herself and fight while activating a learning that she had acquired: she put some blue slime on his arms leading to his arrest later. Great courage and great activation of a resource.

We do not have to have all skills in place, we do not need to be perfect: we just need to go for it, being willing to learn on the go and to use and activate our inner resources. We are enough.

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